"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Feminazi's are at it again.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"They have little breasts and they have fancy hair," the organization's executive director, Dana Edell, told FoxNews.com. "And it just disturbs us that this is the image that they want girls to see."
And that is a bad thing how?
And that is a bad thing how?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Ironically, little girls don't really play with blocks and build stuff anyway, so making a Lego for girls is in and of itself foolishly feminist. Then they get called sexists for trying to be feminists. There is no winning.
I'm sorry if I come across as an archie bunker misogynist but men and women have different gender roles. that's just the way it is. our difference doesn't begin and end with our sex organs. biologically we are wired differently. it's just plain science. we use different parts of our brain.
simply put, men are men, women are women
i feel like now, more than ever, women are refusing to fulfill their gender roles
one example: how many chicks my age know how to cook? cook well? i dont mean i want some barefoot stepford wife cooking me gourmet dinners while i'm the only one working, but damn--it's like women want to totally disregard being feminine now and instead want to be dudes with vaginas.
we have enough dudes with vaginas, they're called afcs
simply put, men are men, women are women
i feel like now, more than ever, women are refusing to fulfill their gender roles
one example: how many chicks my age know how to cook? cook well? i dont mean i want some barefoot stepford wife cooking me gourmet dinners while i'm the only one working, but damn--it's like women want to totally disregard being feminine now and instead want to be dudes with vaginas.
we have enough dudes with vaginas, they're called afcs
TillTheEndOfTime
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I have met women who were proud that they don't know how to cook. As if it was a badge of honour for "modern" "liberalized" women. I said that I can cook. It is called taking care of yourself. Morons.MisterD said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Of course she completely ignores the Inventors Shop set that was mentioned earlier in the article.
I know a lot of female engineers and *gasp* they go shopping and get their nails done like any other woman. None of these women have sacrificed their femininity in order to do their job.