"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Female youth worker, age 21, avoids jail for raping 14yo boy

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MatureDJ

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The lad was born after the Great Recession. :eek: :eek:
 

characternote

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I live in the UK.

This is a DAILY event here. The number of stories we have here that are either ;

1/ A teenage (or early 20's) female prison officer getting banged by a male inmate who she's fallen for

or

2/ A young female teacher/social worker hooking up with some 13-15 year old boy/student

is STAGGERING lol. It's SO common it's unbelievable lol. Like an endemic
 

corrector

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She broke up with him to go back to her ex-boyfriend. Yeah, she should go to jail for hurting his feelings like that.
 

BaronOfHair

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Lots of us(men and women alike)had flings with "older" folks while in our teens, and WERE NOT traumatized by such events. Let's stop pretending like such events are inherently malevolent, especially when there's been no violence or coercion
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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