"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Female youth worker, age 21, avoids jail for raping 14yo boy

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MatureDJ

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The lad was born after the Great Recession. :eek: :eek:
 

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I live in the UK.

This is a DAILY event here. The number of stories we have here that are either ;

1/ A teenage (or early 20's) female prison officer getting banged by a male inmate who she's fallen for

or

2/ A young female teacher/social worker hooking up with some 13-15 year old boy/student

is STAGGERING lol. It's SO common it's unbelievable lol. Like an endemic
 

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She broke up with him to go back to her ex-boyfriend. Yeah, she should go to jail for hurting his feelings like that.
 

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Lots of us(men and women alike)had flings with "older" folks while in our teens, and WERE NOT traumatized by such events. Let's stop pretending like such events are inherently malevolent, especially when there's been no violence or coercion
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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