"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Female to male ratio in Ukraine is like 20 to 1

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Ukrainian women are hot though. If the US gets a long term contract to drill there, it could be a generational opportunity to build wealth and smash tons and tons of Ukrainian women.
It's could be the new version of Landman. Great idea.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sure if you want to die for some pvssy go for it. You must be really desperate to risk your life.
You did not read what I wrote.
This thread is a hypertheoretical conversation thread about when the ratios of men vs women changes so drastically changed and how it impacts the dating game / the interaction between women and men and how it might askew the dynamics between the sexes.

That is why I from the beginning asked people to leave out the war because at the end of the day its not about Ukraine or the proxy war, but about the dating dynamics which is also the only thing I'm interested in because I think it interesting when the ratios are drastic.
 

Divorced w 3

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It's could be the new version of Landman. Great idea.
Is that sarcasm? I don't care if you're busting my chops, I have never seen the show, but i probably should, cast looks great.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You did not read what I wrote.
This thread is a hypertheoretical conversation thread about when the ratios of men vs women changes so drastically changed and how it impacts the dating game / the interaction between women and men and how it might askew the dynamics between the sexes.

That is why I from the beginning asked people to leave out the war because at the end of the day its not about Ukraine or the proxy war, but about the dating dynamics which is also the only thing I'm interested in because I think it interesting when the ratios are drastic.
The premise of your question is not rooted in reality. You claim, without any sort of evidence, that the female-to-male ratio in Ukraine is now 20:1. In fact, there are more men than women in Ukraine right now (at least when it comes to people of reproductive age) for reasons that I explained in my other post.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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