Dhoulmagus
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My gf reads **** online and it reminds me a lot about this site lol. I'm scared it will make her paranoid one day haha.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Excellent post and well said. Women don't need to learn game. It has absolutely no use to them. Would you learn to hunt when the deer and other animals walk right up to you, take your gun and shoot themselves? Of course not.AttackFormation said:Women as a whole don't use sites like this. They lie around with their cell phones entertaining themselves with the next 10 guys who are going to write to them that day, the colleagues and customers who are going to hit on her at work, the gym guys who will ogle her and the orbiters she already has stacked up who she's teasing over snapchat. Very few women would use a site like www.thefemininewoman.com because caring about men and how they can be better women is beneath them, and they don't need any game to get attention and validation.
To add to that, women LOVE playing dumb about it - because they don't need to be informed. They typically talk about gender dynamics the way someone who was born into wealth and knows nothing else would talk about people struggling with money - in a frivolously ignorant, patronizing manner at first and proceeding toward scorn. They think of mens' concerns as trivial and/or pathetic (my guess is because that's what the men in their lives appear as) IF they think about them at all.El Payaso said:Excellent post and well said. Women don't need to learn game. It has absolutely no use to them. Would you learn to hunt when the deer and other animals walk right up to you, take your gun and shoot themselves? Of course not.
All you'd have to do is to show up in the woods with your gun.
The only game (assuming you can call it "game") women need to learn is how to wear low cut shirts with push up bras and skin tight clothing. Taking a hundred selfies a day is also important. Sit back and watch the orbiter and white knight comments fly in.
Modern man has made it in such a way that women don't NEED to PROVE themselves worthy of dating. They just need to show up for being pretty and wearing skin tight clothing.
We badly need WWW3.AttackFormation said:To add to that, women LOVE playing dumb about it - because they don't need to be informed. They typically talk about gender dynamics the way someone who was born into wealth and knows nothing else would talk about people struggling with money - in a frivolously ignorant, patronizing manner at first and proceeding toward scorn. They think of mens' concerns as trivial and/or pathetic (my guess is because that's what the men in their lives appear as) IF they think about them at all.
The reason it is this way is because men have never been cheaper than in our age. There is science that tracks the behaviours of genders when there are different balances of them. There are tens of millions of excess men in the world overall and it gets worse and worse the younger in the age brackets you go, which of course coincides with the point where women have their highest SMVs. For every 100 women born, 107 or so men are born before you factor in abortions of females. We are living in the first days of an age that is the opposite of tens of thousands of years before it - an age where men outnumber women. The effects of this are self-evident.
I sort of agree with this, a woman that doesnt know "game" is a sh*tty ass plate. I've dated some they suck, they get NEXT'D. But I do get what you are saying they dont need "pick-up game" but they better have "dating game".El Payaso said:Excellent post and well said. Women don't need to learn game. It has absolutely no use to them. Would you learn to hunt when the deer and other animals walk right up to you, take your gun and shoot themselves? Of course not.
All you'd have to do is to show up in the woods with your gun.
The only game (assuming you can call it "game") women need to learn is how to wear low cut shirts with push up bras and skin tight clothing. Taking a hundred selfies a day is also important. Sit back and watch the orbiter and white knight comments fly in.
Modern man has made it in such a way that women don't NEED to PROVE themselves worthy of dating. They just need to show up for being pretty and wearing skin tight clothing.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.