Dhoulmagus
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My gf reads **** online and it reminds me a lot about this site lol. I'm scared it will make her paranoid one day haha.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Excellent post and well said. Women don't need to learn game. It has absolutely no use to them. Would you learn to hunt when the deer and other animals walk right up to you, take your gun and shoot themselves? Of course not.AttackFormation said:Women as a whole don't use sites like this. They lie around with their cell phones entertaining themselves with the next 10 guys who are going to write to them that day, the colleagues and customers who are going to hit on her at work, the gym guys who will ogle her and the orbiters she already has stacked up who she's teasing over snapchat. Very few women would use a site like www.thefemininewoman.com because caring about men and how they can be better women is beneath them, and they don't need any game to get attention and validation.
To add to that, women LOVE playing dumb about it - because they don't need to be informed. They typically talk about gender dynamics the way someone who was born into wealth and knows nothing else would talk about people struggling with money - in a frivolously ignorant, patronizing manner at first and proceeding toward scorn. They think of mens' concerns as trivial and/or pathetic (my guess is because that's what the men in their lives appear as) IF they think about them at all.El Payaso said:Excellent post and well said. Women don't need to learn game. It has absolutely no use to them. Would you learn to hunt when the deer and other animals walk right up to you, take your gun and shoot themselves? Of course not.
All you'd have to do is to show up in the woods with your gun.
The only game (assuming you can call it "game") women need to learn is how to wear low cut shirts with push up bras and skin tight clothing. Taking a hundred selfies a day is also important. Sit back and watch the orbiter and white knight comments fly in.
Modern man has made it in such a way that women don't NEED to PROVE themselves worthy of dating. They just need to show up for being pretty and wearing skin tight clothing.
We badly need WWW3.AttackFormation said:To add to that, women LOVE playing dumb about it - because they don't need to be informed. They typically talk about gender dynamics the way someone who was born into wealth and knows nothing else would talk about people struggling with money - in a frivolously ignorant, patronizing manner at first and proceeding toward scorn. They think of mens' concerns as trivial and/or pathetic (my guess is because that's what the men in their lives appear as) IF they think about them at all.
The reason it is this way is because men have never been cheaper than in our age. There is science that tracks the behaviours of genders when there are different balances of them. There are tens of millions of excess men in the world overall and it gets worse and worse the younger in the age brackets you go, which of course coincides with the point where women have their highest SMVs. For every 100 women born, 107 or so men are born before you factor in abortions of females. We are living in the first days of an age that is the opposite of tens of thousands of years before it - an age where men outnumber women. The effects of this are self-evident.
I sort of agree with this, a woman that doesnt know "game" is a sh*tty ass plate. I've dated some they suck, they get NEXT'D. But I do get what you are saying they dont need "pick-up game" but they better have "dating game".El Payaso said:Excellent post and well said. Women don't need to learn game. It has absolutely no use to them. Would you learn to hunt when the deer and other animals walk right up to you, take your gun and shoot themselves? Of course not.
All you'd have to do is to show up in the woods with your gun.
The only game (assuming you can call it "game") women need to learn is how to wear low cut shirts with push up bras and skin tight clothing. Taking a hundred selfies a day is also important. Sit back and watch the orbiter and white knight comments fly in.
Modern man has made it in such a way that women don't NEED to PROVE themselves worthy of dating. They just need to show up for being pretty and wearing skin tight clothing.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.