“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Female self esteem issues
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
5string
Master Don Juan
Exactly, there are even studies that prove that the lower the self-esteem of a girl the early she lose her virginity while its the opposite for guys.5string said:Don't fool yourselves. Women with very low self esteem are the ones who have really slept around. Count on it. They define their self worth by the sexual attention they receive from men and will give it up readily.
So yes as 5 said dont fool yourselves and do not think that a certain trait brings the same conseguences in both the sexes.
So what? It doesn't matter how many other men a woman has slept with unless you're looking for a serious relationship. The absolute worst kinds of women are unattractive ones with high self-esteem. I'd take casual sex low-self esteem slvt over any kind of interaction with high-self esteem ugly/old b!tch any day of the week.5string said:Don't fool yourselves. Women with very low self esteem are the ones who have really slept around. Count on it. They define their self worth by the sexual attention they receive from men and will give it up readily.
5string
Master Don Juan
Well, that's your preference then. Personally, I'll take a high quality woman who shows me respect, is very attractive and fvcks like a bunny.PappyS said:So what? It doesn't matter how many other men a woman has slept with unless you're looking for a serious relationship. The absolute worst kinds of women are unattractive ones with high self-esteem. I'd take casual sex low-self esteem slvt over any kind of interaction with high-self esteem ugly/old b!tch any day of the week.
You can have the slvts.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I don't think this is really big news. Someone with low self-esteem will seek external validation through others. For women, its usually attention/sex from men.5string said:Don't fool yourselves. Women with very low self esteem are the ones who have really slept around. Count on it. They define their self worth by the sexual attention they receive from men and will give it up readily.
But I don't think all women who give it up readily suffer from low self-esteem. Correlation does not necessarily imply causation. There are plenty of LSE chicks who will withhold sex as a weapon to obtain a relationship or other favors. Plus the women who suffer from body image issues which prevents them from being intimate with another person.
On the flip side....there are women who "give it up" simply because they think you're attractive, want to have sex with you, and don't want to play any games. I don't think this is necessarily reflective of low self-esteem but rather an individual's sexual preferences.
I think a better approach would be to ask what exactly motivates a particular woman's level of promiscuity (or lack of) rather than painting them in one broad brush.