"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Female self esteem issues
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
5string
Master Don Juan
Exactly, there are even studies that prove that the lower the self-esteem of a girl the early she lose her virginity while its the opposite for guys.5string said:Don't fool yourselves. Women with very low self esteem are the ones who have really slept around. Count on it. They define their self worth by the sexual attention they receive from men and will give it up readily.
So yes as 5 said dont fool yourselves and do not think that a certain trait brings the same conseguences in both the sexes.
So what? It doesn't matter how many other men a woman has slept with unless you're looking for a serious relationship. The absolute worst kinds of women are unattractive ones with high self-esteem. I'd take casual sex low-self esteem slvt over any kind of interaction with high-self esteem ugly/old b!tch any day of the week.5string said:Don't fool yourselves. Women with very low self esteem are the ones who have really slept around. Count on it. They define their self worth by the sexual attention they receive from men and will give it up readily.
5string
Master Don Juan
Well, that's your preference then. Personally, I'll take a high quality woman who shows me respect, is very attractive and fvcks like a bunny.PappyS said:So what? It doesn't matter how many other men a woman has slept with unless you're looking for a serious relationship. The absolute worst kinds of women are unattractive ones with high self-esteem. I'd take casual sex low-self esteem slvt over any kind of interaction with high-self esteem ugly/old b!tch any day of the week.
You can have the slvts.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I don't think this is really big news. Someone with low self-esteem will seek external validation through others. For women, its usually attention/sex from men.5string said:Don't fool yourselves. Women with very low self esteem are the ones who have really slept around. Count on it. They define their self worth by the sexual attention they receive from men and will give it up readily.
But I don't think all women who give it up readily suffer from low self-esteem. Correlation does not necessarily imply causation. There are plenty of LSE chicks who will withhold sex as a weapon to obtain a relationship or other favors. Plus the women who suffer from body image issues which prevents them from being intimate with another person.
On the flip side....there are women who "give it up" simply because they think you're attractive, want to have sex with you, and don't want to play any games. I don't think this is necessarily reflective of low self-esteem but rather an individual's sexual preferences.
I think a better approach would be to ask what exactly motivates a particular woman's level of promiscuity (or lack of) rather than painting them in one broad brush.