"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Female self deception is a survival mechanism??

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We do have choices available to us. However smart people around you will always be trying to control and manipulate the information you make those choices on. We've swallowed the red pill we've opened eyes up to 1 type of manipulation there r many others
Even "low intelligence" people will manipulate the information you are provided in order to extract from you or get you to do something or think something.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This is how the woman can delude herself that her violent BF “isn’t a bad guy” or that the violent guy she has a sexual interest “has another side”.
lmfao :rofl:
 

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Similarly a man can delude themselves that their 4 inch penis is “good enough”, that having a low status doesn’t matter etc.

The main evolutionary survival mechanism is the ability to see strength as something other.

Women in the early days of humanity would have been saved when their men were murdered by another tribe. They would then become child bearing asset, essentially, of another tribes men.

They therefore evolved mechanisms to develop love with these men. To attach to them.

This is how the woman can delude herself that her violent BF “isn’t a bad guy” or that the violent guy she has a sexual interest “has another side”.

She can delude and rationalise this. It’s where hypergamy comes from.
If you can not beat them join them. It is basically Stockholm Syndrome though it is quite a reasonable strategy. Happens to men too. If an enemy beat your tribe they become your new king.
 

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Women leave the house in a disguise. Lulz at men being honest. Bozo the clown wants honesty!
 
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