"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Female self deception is a survival mechanism??

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We do have choices available to us. However smart people around you will always be trying to control and manipulate the information you make those choices on. We've swallowed the red pill we've opened eyes up to 1 type of manipulation there r many others
Even "low intelligence" people will manipulate the information you are provided in order to extract from you or get you to do something or think something.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is how the woman can delude herself that her violent BF “isn’t a bad guy” or that the violent guy she has a sexual interest “has another side”.
lmfao :rofl:
 

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Similarly a man can delude themselves that their 4 inch penis is “good enough”, that having a low status doesn’t matter etc.

The main evolutionary survival mechanism is the ability to see strength as something other.

Women in the early days of humanity would have been saved when their men were murdered by another tribe. They would then become child bearing asset, essentially, of another tribes men.

They therefore evolved mechanisms to develop love with these men. To attach to them.

This is how the woman can delude herself that her violent BF “isn’t a bad guy” or that the violent guy she has a sexual interest “has another side”.

She can delude and rationalise this. It’s where hypergamy comes from.
If you can not beat them join them. It is basically Stockholm Syndrome though it is quite a reasonable strategy. Happens to men too. If an enemy beat your tribe they become your new king.
 

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Women leave the house in a disguise. Lulz at men being honest. Bozo the clown wants honesty!
 
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