The Duke
Master Don Juan
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I've finally realized that there are 3 traits a female needs to have for me to stay with her long term. Those are physical attractiveness, emotional control, and self-esteem. The higher a woman ranks in these categories the more I enjoy her company and less problems I have. I started a thread the other day about how to make relationships last long term and after further thinking believe that emotional control and self-esteem are key ingredients for a successful relationship. The girls that disappoint me always lack in emotional control/self-esteem.
On a scale of 1-10 with 1 being low emotional control and 10 being high emotional control, what would you rate the average for the women that have been IN LOVE WITH YOU?
How about self-esteem? 1 = low self esteem, 2 = high self esteem.
What about physical attractiveness? 1 = ugly, 10 = hot.
For me I'd say 6.5 is the average for emotional control. For me to stay attracted long term I expect more like 8.5. My exwife was a 9 and I think that's why we got a long so well. I've had one other girl that was up there as well. But these types are hard to find. I often hear girls tell me that I have high expectations in regards to their behavior.
For self-esteem, most average around 7.0. Again the two girls I had with higher self control also had higher self esteem(8.5) than the rest.
For physical attractiveness the average is 8.0.
The 3 most attractive girls I have ever been with (HB9's) all were confident on the surface but had low self-esteem underneath it all. Their quest for personal beauty could never be satisfied. At the end of the day I got tired of boosting them up so they could feel better for that moment in time.
On a scale of 1-10 with 1 being low emotional control and 10 being high emotional control, what would you rate the average for the women that have been IN LOVE WITH YOU?
How about self-esteem? 1 = low self esteem, 2 = high self esteem.
What about physical attractiveness? 1 = ugly, 10 = hot.
For me I'd say 6.5 is the average for emotional control. For me to stay attracted long term I expect more like 8.5. My exwife was a 9 and I think that's why we got a long so well. I've had one other girl that was up there as well. But these types are hard to find. I often hear girls tell me that I have high expectations in regards to their behavior.
For self-esteem, most average around 7.0. Again the two girls I had with higher self control also had higher self esteem(8.5) than the rest.
For physical attractiveness the average is 8.0.
The 3 most attractive girls I have ever been with (HB9's) all were confident on the surface but had low self-esteem underneath it all. Their quest for personal beauty could never be satisfied. At the end of the day I got tired of boosting them up so they could feel better for that moment in time.
