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Female Manipulation Tactics

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Here are a few tips to avoid manipulation:

1. Don't let her lead. E.g. "let's get drinks", "I'll order (whatever the f I want), "we're going upstairs" etc.
2. Watch her behaviour, not her words. Is she cooperating or not? I.e. is she shutting up and letting you lead. Or is she continuously throwing obstacles in your path?
3. Don't believe that a woman is attracted to you just because she is talking to you or acting nice.
 

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I have too much experience with girls taking the lead and them leading to lays, to not be bothered by it as much as it bothers you. Maybe because in your case they didn't lead to lays? But yea, the advice I gave him is the same advice I followed that lead me to fvcking my current fb. After I'd approached her upstairs she said she was going to the dancefloor with her friend (was more there to see the band than hookup with somebody but wasn't opposed to it). I told them I was gonna look for my friend (aka see if there were any better sets) then ran into her on the dancefloor and yanked her hair back. Escalated on the dancefloor. Sneak in a few kisses when her friend wasn't looking. Won over the friend (that's how you avoid getting KOKblocked btw). Managed to isolate my girl. Madeout again. Then at the end, her friend took an Uber home. And she invited me (taking the lead again) home with her.
 

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I have too much experience with girls taking the lead and them leading to lays, to not be bothered by it as much as it bothers you. Maybe because in your case they didn't lead to lays? But yea, the advice I gave him is the same advice I followed that lead me to fvcking my current fb. After I'd approached her upstairs she said she was going to the dancefloor with her friend (was more there to see the band than hookup with somebody but wasn't opposed to it). I told them I was gonna look for my friend (aka see if there were any better sets) then ran into her on the dancefloor and yanked her hair back. Escalated on the dancefloor. Sneak in a few kisses when her friend wasn't looking. Won over the friend (that's how you avoid getting KOKblocked btw). Managed to isolate my girl. Madeout again. Then at the end, her friend took an Uber home. And she invited me (taking the lead again) home with her.
I see. So after getting swindled out of a drink and blown out, it's time to follow her around the venue and pull her hair?
 

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Here we go. It seems you're getting emotional, just like you did with the girl after she suckered you for a drink.
its been a while, huh. :) nah mate, its all good.
 

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Let's move on and mention another female manipulation tactic, which is used not just by women but also by feminine men: shaming. For example, accusing men of being incels when they don't agree with you.
 

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I like the one where they "pull back" to see if you will chase. Usually happens a few weeks into a new relationship, to gauge your interest and who wants the other more.

I simply get VERY busy for a few days....
Yes, that's a nice one.

Another one is when they start telling you sob stories to see if you turn into Captain Saveaho.
 
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