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Female Manipulation Tactics

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The story about the guy at the bar is a good example of how women take advantage of men. Here's how to get free drinks at a bar, if you're a woman:

1. Stand alone, somewhere close to the bar.
2. Make eye contact and smile at the nearest man.
3. When he comes over and starts talking, say "let's get drinks".
4. When the bill comes, just stand there and wait for him to pay.
5. At this point, your KOKblocking friends can swarm around you, making it impossible for him to escalate.
6. If he doesn't look like he wants to buy them drinks as well, you can easily ditch him by saying "let's go dance"
 

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If you're a woman, and you know how much drinks in bars cost, then you're ugly.

I met a girl out and about the other day. We went to a Starbucks nearby, and during our conversation, she mentioned that she doesn't even know how much drinks in bars cost.

I looked at her and said, "Ya don't say."
 

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Here is a place to warn your brothers about some of the manipulation tactics that you have seen women use. One that comes to mind immediately is "playing stupid" or "playing innocent", which is a sign of an attention whoare. I've noticed that this is a very popular tactic in more conservative countries where there is a culture of shame related to sex. Women want to pretend that they don't know what sex is and that they are shocked that a man would be interested in such a thing. Which is BS, obviously.

On the other hand, in some countries women don't play this game at all and immediately understand and acknowledge that if a man is speaking to them or spending time with them, then it's because he wants sex.
"playing brand new" as da dynamically used to say. Any time someone is trying to pretend theyre so different usually just means they know what to hide.
 

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Here are a few tips to avoid manipulation:

1. Don't let her lead. E.g. "let's get drinks", "I'll order (whatever the f I want), "we're going upstairs" etc.
2. Watch her behaviour, not her words. Is she cooperating or not? I.e. is she shutting up and letting you lead. Or is she continuously throwing obstacles in your path?
3. Don't believe that a woman is attracted to you just because she is talking to you or acting nice.
 

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I have too much experience with girls taking the lead and them leading to lays, to not be bothered by it as much as it bothers you. Maybe because in your case they didn't lead to lays? But yea, the advice I gave him is the same advice I followed that lead me to fvcking my current fb. After I'd approached her upstairs she said she was going to the dancefloor with her friend (was more there to see the band than hookup with somebody but wasn't opposed to it). I told them I was gonna look for my friend (aka see if there were any better sets) then ran into her on the dancefloor and yanked her hair back. Escalated on the dancefloor. Sneak in a few kisses when her friend wasn't looking. Won over the friend (that's how you avoid getting KOKblocked btw). Managed to isolate my girl. Madeout again. Then at the end, her friend took an Uber home. And she invited me (taking the lead again) home with her.
 

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I have too much experience with girls taking the lead and them leading to lays, to not be bothered by it as much as it bothers you. Maybe because in your case they didn't lead to lays? But yea, the advice I gave him is the same advice I followed that lead me to fvcking my current fb. After I'd approached her upstairs she said she was going to the dancefloor with her friend (was more there to see the band than hookup with somebody but wasn't opposed to it). I told them I was gonna look for my friend (aka see if there were any better sets) then ran into her on the dancefloor and yanked her hair back. Escalated on the dancefloor. Sneak in a few kisses when her friend wasn't looking. Won over the friend (that's how you avoid getting KOKblocked btw). Managed to isolate my girl. Madeout again. Then at the end, her friend took an Uber home. And she invited me (taking the lead again) home with her.
I see. So after getting swindled out of a drink and blown out, it's time to follow her around the venue and pull her hair?
 

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Here we go. It seems you're getting emotional, just like you did with the girl after she suckered you for a drink.
its been a while, huh. :) nah mate, its all good.
 

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Let's move on and mention another female manipulation tactic, which is used not just by women but also by feminine men: shaming. For example, accusing men of being incels when they don't agree with you.
 

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I like the one where they "pull back" to see if you will chase. Usually happens a few weeks into a new relationship, to gauge your interest and who wants the other more.

I simply get VERY busy for a few days....
 

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I like the one where they "pull back" to see if you will chase. Usually happens a few weeks into a new relationship, to gauge your interest and who wants the other more.

I simply get VERY busy for a few days....
Yes, that's a nice one.

Another one is when they start telling you sob stories to see if you turn into Captain Saveaho.
 
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