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I started to get sick of the HB8-9s and their flaky behavior on Bumble and decided to run a fun experiment. I began right swiping every girl there was. Within an hour i had several matches. Most were all below HB6. I am at least a 7 and maybe an 8 to some girls. The typical convo went like this and they all responded almost immediately.

Her: Hi cutie
Howie: i am not looking for anything serious....fyi.
Her: thats fine. Maybe fwb? How was your day?
Howie: rough, need to blow off some steam if you know what i mean.
Her: Im sorry, i could help you. Some intense sex?
Howie: yeah that would be great, the freakier the better!
Her: we could go on a hike.
Howie: i could do bad things to you.
Her: i love it when a man takes charge. Id love it.

Blah blah blah.....try that on a woman at or above your SMV and let me know how it works. Try it on a a girl 3-4 levels below you and they act like the dirty little wh0res every one of them is. Except they just come to bat a hell of a lot quicker and play far less games. Its like a buy one get 2 free at the designer handbag store!
 

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I’ve never had responses that forward on tinder or old. I don’t consider myself to be unattractive either but I’ve never had a woman bring up fwb like that. I’m starting to think I must be ugly lol

How old is the typical woman you’re talking to?
 

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35-45. Some werent quite so forward, but the sexual intent was there with all of them as soon as i said i dont want anything serious. Its like they thought they were getting the deal of the century so they threw the trump card at it which is always sex.
 

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@Howiestern, if you say so. Even when I do date a woman from the city in that age range, none are DTF that quick before meeting. IWS, after the first date, there were some I took them up on, but none from the get go from O.L.D. w/o meeting first.

What city do you live in? I am going to assume by the handle, NYC, but I could be wrong.
 

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35-45. Some werent quite so forward, but the sexual intent was there with all of them as soon as i said i dont want anything serious. Its like they thought they were getting the deal of the century so they threw the trump card at it which is always sex.
dude you're going after women 4 pts below you who are around 40

its like going to the gym and being shocked that the very light weights are super easy to lift

its very easy for women to get 40 year olds 4 pts below them to commit to them also
 

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dude you're going after women 4 pts below you who are around 40

its like going to the gym and being shocked that the very light weights are super easy to lift

its very easy for women to get 40 year olds 4 pts below them to commit to them also

Says the man who's not been with a women in 2 years. Geez.. If that's not the pot calling the kettle black, I am not sure what is.
 

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Says the man who's not been with a women in 2 years. Geez.. If that's not the pot calling the kettle black, I am not sure what is.

I've had 5s and 6s my age and 7s and 8s in their 30s and 40s be interested in me

I want someone my league
 

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A 6 is definitely your league. Youre a very insecure man which makes you a low value man. You should jump on any 6 that is into you. If you are a male 7 your range should be 6-8 anyway.
Really, with his current personality? I'd say 6 is on the high end. Once he fixes that personality, it would be much higher; but that can take years at his current state. Money and looks can get you in the door. However a piss poor personality will get you kicked out of it pretty fast.
 

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If he's actually getting attention from them he should date em and see what happens. I agree he will probably mess it up though.
Without a doubt it's his personality; unless the pics he posts are not really him and the $$$ he mentions is BS.
 

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It's his personality plus delusional standards. He says he's a 7 but in the 1% top men, then rates women who are 9+ as 7s.
I said I was in top 1 percentile of Armenian men

For American white standards, I'm a solid 7 to 7.5
 

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A 6 is definitely your league. Youre a very insecure man which makes you a low value man. You should jump on any 6 that is into you. If you are a male 7 your range should be 6-8 anyway.
I would do a 6 if she had potential

a 6 with potential would be a girl with a really cute face but is slightly maybe 10 lbs too chubby who has fat ass and tits who I can mold to a 7 or an 8. This is assuming she's ethnic - I don't really like pale light skin white girls
 

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I said I was in top 1 percentile of Armenian men

For American white standards, I'm a solid 7 to 7.5
Perhaps in your dreams my friend. Were you raised with a lot of women around you and no male role model? Your demands in what you want in a woman are situated very similar to how a woman does for a man.
 

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Perhaps in your dreams my friend. Were you raised with a lot of women around you and no male role model? Your demands in what you want in a woman are situated very similar to how a woman does for a man.
What part is in my dreams? Armenian men are ugly as hell. I know at least a 100 to maybe 200 and nobody can touch me when it comes to looks

What you said there is very interesting in the last sentence. To me it's just common sense to only want a woman around my age, no kids, similar personality/values/morals/character traits to me, similar ethnicity to me (I like ethnic women cause they age much much better), decent with finances. To me that's all common sense. I never thought that has anything to do with gender
 

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What part is in my dreams? Armenian men are ugly as hell. I know at least a 100 to maybe 200 and nobody can touch me when it comes to looks

What you said there is very interesting in the last sentence. To me it's just common sense to only want a woman around my age, no kids, similar personality/values/morals/character traits to me, similar ethnicity to me (I like ethnic women cause they age much much better), decent with finances. To me that's all common sense. I never thought that has anything to do with gender
Dave, you have so much to learn. What you are looking for is a fantasy and doesn't exist in this day and age. If you think it does, go for it. In ten years, you'll be w/o sex for 12 years and almost 40 asking yourself what did I do wrong. You're as picky as a NY Jewish or Italian woman.
 

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I started to get sick of the HB8-9s and their flaky behavior on Bumble and decided to run a fun experiment. I began right swiping every girl there was. Within an hour i had several matches. Most were all below HB6. I am at least a 7 and maybe an 8 to some girls. The typical convo went like this and they all responded almost immediately.

Her: Hi cutie
Howie: i am not looking for anything serious....fyi.
Her: thats fine. Maybe fwb? How was your day?
Howie: rough, need to blow off some steam if you know what i mean.
Her: Im sorry, i could help you. Some intense sex?
Howie: yeah that would be great, the freakier the better!
Her: we could go on a hike.
Howie: i could do bad things to you.
Her: i love it when a man takes charge. Id love it.

Blah blah blah.....try that on a woman at or above your SMV and let me know how it works. Try it on a a girl 3-4 levels below you and they act like the dirty little wh0res every one of them is. Except they just come to bat a hell of a lot quicker and play far less games. Its like a buy one get 2 free at the designer handbag store!
So did you have to roll her around in flour and look for the wet spot?
 

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