That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's interesting seeing the choice of words.Go Candace
First off, Candace is about 10 times hotter than AOC. And even if she wasn't, I would kick AOC out as soon as she opened her mouth.
Sounds like narcissism to me. But regarding the one guy's critiques, I have to admit I'm not a fan of seeing bare male feet in public either (insert vomit noises here).It's interesting seeing the choice of words.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
math a little off here but agreed. Definitely not a fan of AOC.AOC is ugly. Would not smash if paid to do it. 6 billion other women on the planet. No fantasies needed
where do you get your numbers? Are yuo claiming that 3/4 of the population is adult female?AOC is ugly. Would not smash if paid to do it. 6 billion other women on the planet. No fantasies needed
Soon most will be if the woke have their waywhere do you get your numbers? Are yuo claiming that 3/4 of the population is adult female?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.