"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MurdocIsGod

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What do you do when you begin to like one of them and she's not into you?

I know the move on part, but what's up with all these guys who say "cut contact forever" etc. I don't understand it. I can see why it could be a good idea but if she's genuinely a friend it seems kinda stupid. I did this to a girl who was an actual friend some time ago now (cut her off totally) and I still miss her now if I think about it, I regret doing it and I have no idea how to get back in contact with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alex DeLarge

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I've had female friends I was into sexually (and still am) but I would not call it anything close to a one-itis situation. I've always been able to maintain healthy platonic relationships with them, as well as meet other attractive girls through them!
 

LoneWolf

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i cant stay friends with girls without wanting to fuk them lol.
 

GhostWriter

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It's pointless to maintain contact b/c the time and energy you waste on your uninterested friend...

you could be using on someone with real potential.

Not only that, being the friend puts you in a position to get used and abused.
Over all you're not getting anything out of it but false hope.
 

st_99

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if you're really into her it will probably eat away at you over time because she'll hook up with guys and talk about it in front of you or you'll have to see it constantly. Most people simply can't put up with that over time.

Friends that I have that are girls are ones that i DONT want to f*ck because they are 3's, 4's or 5's. No interest on my part.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonGorgon

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there is nothing you can do..

rule of life number 6: Only keep female friends who you have already Fed cause other females will ask about you and it sounds 1000000000s times better if she says "yeh me and XX used to F" instead of "nah i would never F XX..."...lol
 

MurdocIsGod

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Alex DeLarge said:
I've had female friends I was into sexually (and still am) but I would not call it anything close to a one-itis situation. I've always been able to maintain healthy platonic relationships with them, as well as meet other attractive girls through them!
AWESOME username. Love that film so much, in fact I use the same username on some other forums.
 

JdelaSilviera

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MurdocisGod, of course you can get a girl friend. Pua community has some fvcking funny myths like, looks don´t matter, or you can´t fvck a friend wich are completly ridiculous. Anyone who´s in the real world knows otherwise, looks account for at least 50% of seduction, and in most long term relationships people start as friends.

You have to be more manly, make fun of her in a teasing way, make her know you are dating other girls (whether is true or not, I don´t care), don´t be always available, and most important DON`T TELL HER YOU LIKE HER.
 
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