"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MurdocIsGod

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What do you do when you begin to like one of them and she's not into you?

I know the move on part, but what's up with all these guys who say "cut contact forever" etc. I don't understand it. I can see why it could be a good idea but if she's genuinely a friend it seems kinda stupid. I did this to a girl who was an actual friend some time ago now (cut her off totally) and I still miss her now if I think about it, I regret doing it and I have no idea how to get back in contact with her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alex DeLarge

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I've had female friends I was into sexually (and still am) but I would not call it anything close to a one-itis situation. I've always been able to maintain healthy platonic relationships with them, as well as meet other attractive girls through them!
 

LoneWolf

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i cant stay friends with girls without wanting to fuk them lol.
 

GhostWriter

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It's pointless to maintain contact b/c the time and energy you waste on your uninterested friend...

you could be using on someone with real potential.

Not only that, being the friend puts you in a position to get used and abused.
Over all you're not getting anything out of it but false hope.
 

st_99

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if you're really into her it will probably eat away at you over time because she'll hook up with guys and talk about it in front of you or you'll have to see it constantly. Most people simply can't put up with that over time.

Friends that I have that are girls are ones that i DONT want to f*ck because they are 3's, 4's or 5's. No interest on my part.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonGorgon

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there is nothing you can do..

rule of life number 6: Only keep female friends who you have already Fed cause other females will ask about you and it sounds 1000000000s times better if she says "yeh me and XX used to F" instead of "nah i would never F XX..."...lol
 

MurdocIsGod

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Alex DeLarge said:
I've had female friends I was into sexually (and still am) but I would not call it anything close to a one-itis situation. I've always been able to maintain healthy platonic relationships with them, as well as meet other attractive girls through them!
AWESOME username. Love that film so much, in fact I use the same username on some other forums.
 

JdelaSilviera

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MurdocisGod, of course you can get a girl friend. Pua community has some fvcking funny myths like, looks don´t matter, or you can´t fvck a friend wich are completly ridiculous. Anyone who´s in the real world knows otherwise, looks account for at least 50% of seduction, and in most long term relationships people start as friends.

You have to be more manly, make fun of her in a teasing way, make her know you are dating other girls (whether is true or not, I don´t care), don´t be always available, and most important DON`T TELL HER YOU LIKE HER.
 
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