"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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female friend never calls..(how to raise interest?)

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright, this chick has seen alot in me. AT this point, I'm not sure if i want her more than a friend, im waiting on her move.

Anyways, heres the deal. I met her in school, and we kicked it with some other friends. She has seen me do cold approaches with other women, I treat her normal, and am c&F with her, and whenever we're out, i usually forget to talk to her, so she ends up getting my attention by saying something out of the blue like "hehe...Do that again, you're so funny" or something like that, even though im not talking to her.

However, this is what confuses me,whenever i see her in class, I figure she would at least talk to me, but no...Iam always the one who initiates conversation! when i do talk to her she is always giggling, and that isnt her nature. Also, if i ever wanna chill or something, I will always be the one to call her, and most times things dont work out and we never meet up, she just wont call. Now, I called her on sat. to try and do something, she makes herself available, but it turns out something came up on my behalf. Is she just overly shy? When should i call her again? or should i just keep her as a lbjf?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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christz

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god sounds like this AW i messed with a while back..
 
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