"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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female friend never calls..(how to raise interest?)

gimmeyofonenumba

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Alright, this chick has seen alot in me. AT this point, I'm not sure if i want her more than a friend, im waiting on her move.

Anyways, heres the deal. I met her in school, and we kicked it with some other friends. She has seen me do cold approaches with other women, I treat her normal, and am c&F with her, and whenever we're out, i usually forget to talk to her, so she ends up getting my attention by saying something out of the blue like "hehe...Do that again, you're so funny" or something like that, even though im not talking to her.

However, this is what confuses me,whenever i see her in class, I figure she would at least talk to me, but no...Iam always the one who initiates conversation! when i do talk to her she is always giggling, and that isnt her nature. Also, if i ever wanna chill or something, I will always be the one to call her, and most times things dont work out and we never meet up, she just wont call. Now, I called her on sat. to try and do something, she makes herself available, but it turns out something came up on my behalf. Is she just overly shy? When should i call her again? or should i just keep her as a lbjf?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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god sounds like this AW i messed with a while back..
 
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