"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Female asking me for help

Ll Principe

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There is this ex of mine that keeps asking for help,we are now "friends" here are the stats..

a) I offered my advice before about another guy
b) She thought it was good but never USED it
c) Now she is asking for advice AGAIN

What do I do? Knowing the first time she never used my advice and listened to me so its like me wasting my breath? Do I tell her she has gotta pay for advice now or what should I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jay Jay

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Let me be ask a crude question here.

Do you want to **** her?
 

Ll Principe

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I already had sex with her, she was my ex? Done it ALL with her, this was 3 years ago though, not interested in her now... So that rules out the sex thing, should I tell her money or no advice or what other options do I got?
 

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If she can cook....get er to make you foood!:rockon:
if its an ex, you prolly already beat that up... so in that matter Next, right
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jay Jay

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For **** sake, give her advice. I don't see what your issue is. You want a reward, how about the reward of being a decent human being???
 

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Maby she wants your advice on what NOT to do.. Seams a lot of people do that around me and I always have the chance to say "I told you so" later on. Ahh people are stupid.
 
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