female agenda

[EmotionalGeek]

So we all know what is man's agenda. What they really want and what are the traits of men they are searching for. Last time I asked this question to woman she said she knows this really good and she is very concrete. When I drilled further I got answers like "He has to has it". So I asked what "it" is and she just answered that she knows when she sees. Drilling further just proved my point that she don't know what she wants.

Also man say that woman plays them but they have to play man for something e.g. man plays for sex. So I wonder if there is anything we know about female agenda.

 

[Mike32ct]

So we all know what is man's agenda. What they really want and what are the traits of men they are searching for. Last time I asked this question to woman she said she knows this really good and she is very concrete. When I drilled further I got answers like "He has to has it". So I asked what "it" is and she just answered that she knows when she sees. Drilling further just proved my point that she don't know what she wants.

Also man say that woman plays them but they have to play man for something e.g. man plays for sex. So I wonder if there is anything we know about female agenda.

I believe that women know exactly what they want and don't want. However, they might not want to be brutally honest and admit it, and/or they might not be the best at trying to explain it.

 

[logicallefty]

Women need 1) organisms/great sex 2) to be taken care of financially, etc. 3) validation. If they can get it all from the same man, great. If not, they will seek to get these needs met from multiple men, even if committed to one. You can almost call this "clockwork".

 

[The Duke]

Women need 1) organisms/great sex 2) to be taken care of financially, etc. 3) validation. If they can get it all from the same man, great. If not, they will seek to get these needs met from multiple men, even if committed to one. You can almost call this "clockwork".

I have seen this in most all of my relationships. When I didn't provide those 3 things, she started behaving badly in some form.

Women just aren't worth it to me. They don't offer me enough in return. When they figure out you have money, and aren't willing to spend it on them they become resentful.

 

[resilient]

The problem with their "agenda" is that you get punished for mistakes men made with her in the past. So if she rode the CC, separated/divorced, have guys up there on her HST, she'll have elevated expectations on you not to f it up. Even more so if she is swimming in options.

The way to circumvent all of that is as it's often discussed on here... live in your frame. Don't give into her agenda. Give into your agenda. You lead, she follows.

Live your life the way you want to live it. If she doesn't respect and act accordingly like a good soldier as @guru1000 would say, you're always free to drop the plate.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have seen this in most all of my relationships. When I didn't provide those 3 things, she started behaving badly in some form.

Women just aren't worth it to me. They don't offer me enough in return. When they figure out you have money, and aren't willing to spend it on them they become resentful.

Have you come across women who are more giving and generous? I know the numbers are shrinking every year, but they still exist.

 

[LimaBean]

Have you come across women who are more giving and generous? I know the numbers are shrinking every year, but they still exist.

I have one that almost begs to do stuff for me. I've mentioned her before on the forums. Drives a long way to see me, cooks all the meals we eat - dishes after, does my laundry, rubs my back, makes the bed, etc. I think the "giving" attribute stems a lot from her working ever since she was little. Always on the farm, helping with her parents business, straight A's from grade school to finishing masters. Just always worked hard on everything. My room mate is dating a girl almost 100% identical. They are a rare find but man are they great.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have one that almost begs to do stuff for me. I've mentioned her before on the forums. Drives a long way to see me, cooks all the meals we eat - dishes after, does my laundry, rubs my back, makes the bed, etc. I think the "giving" attribute stems a lot from her working ever since she was little. Always on the farm, helping with her parents business, straight A's from grade school to finishing masters. Just always worked hard on everything. My room mate is dating a girl almost 100% identical. They are a rare find but man are they great.

And I tell people they can and will help you, and they will learn to please their man too. They care.

 

[LimaBean]

And I tell people they can and will help you, and they will learn to please their man too. They care.

Women want to please you, but you have to lead them there. The rare Phoenix does it without being asked.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Women searching for good DNA? Nah not from what I've seen

 

[wifehunter]

They want what they can't have....they want Mr. IMPOSSIBLE.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

They want what they can't have....they want Mr. IMPOSSIBLE.

Are these games ever played in real life?

I go out all the time and never see these supermen playboys that are described on this forum.

I think a lot of what people are describing are little games that young kids play.