"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fellow DJ's, you aren't gonna believe this!!

blinkwatt

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Do what I do. Get in shape,enought to make people make comments. Then mow your lawn,wash your car or basically anytime you are outside your house be shirtless. Trust me people will stare.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pooparu

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
anyone who hunts or is an avid bird watcher would have a pair kicking around.... They aren't uncommon and loads of people have them.

Don't be so quick to form assumptions. Assumptions can get you in trouble.
You are right, but he's like a high school student, I doubt he's going hunting in what sounds like an american suburb, but maybe I interpereted wrong. You're right though, "assuming" makes an ASS out of U and ME (hehe, slipped in the quote).
 

Brian Griffin

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I've always had binoculars. I use to use them at night to look at the sky. And they weren't "on hand", I just went into the other room and got them.

As far as why I've never seen her there before. She was setting up the rummage sale with a few other women and an older man. So I'm assuming that's her dads house and she was visiting to help him set it up.
 

Bvbidd

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lol your such a freak

first you spy on her and now you debate on a forum about whether to talk to her again?

What do YOU want do?

At least most lovesick sensitive AFCs do what they want to do. Your below that because your asking us.

Go up and talk to her if you know her. Sh!t.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hitchcock1

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DUDE!! is she selling any commodore 64 games? i've been checking garage sales everywhere.... .how about any old vaccuum cleaners?
 
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