"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fellow DJ's, you aren't gonna believe this!!

blinkwatt

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Do what I do. Get in shape,enought to make people make comments. Then mow your lawn,wash your car or basically anytime you are outside your house be shirtless. Trust me people will stare.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pooparu

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
anyone who hunts or is an avid bird watcher would have a pair kicking around.... They aren't uncommon and loads of people have them.

Don't be so quick to form assumptions. Assumptions can get you in trouble.
You are right, but he's like a high school student, I doubt he's going hunting in what sounds like an american suburb, but maybe I interpereted wrong. You're right though, "assuming" makes an ASS out of U and ME (hehe, slipped in the quote).
 

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I've always had binoculars. I use to use them at night to look at the sky. And they weren't "on hand", I just went into the other room and got them.

As far as why I've never seen her there before. She was setting up the rummage sale with a few other women and an older man. So I'm assuming that's her dads house and she was visiting to help him set it up.
 

Bvbidd

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lol your such a freak

first you spy on her and now you debate on a forum about whether to talk to her again?

What do YOU want do?

At least most lovesick sensitive AFCs do what they want to do. Your below that because your asking us.

Go up and talk to her if you know her. Sh!t.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hitchcock1

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DUDE!! is she selling any commodore 64 games? i've been checking garage sales everywhere.... .how about any old vaccuum cleaners?
 
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