"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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fellow djs I need some insight pls...

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I ddnt email hert **** after standing me up, she the one that emailed me first thing in the morniing the next day, pllus we work together, never did once I set her a mmsg on her cell, just thought it would be polite, but u guys said otherwise, so I won't emaiul her anymore
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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katzorange said:
I ddnt email hert **** after standing me up, she the one that emailed me first thing in the morniing the next day, pllus we work together, never did once I set her a mmsg on her cell, just thought it would be polite, but u guys said otherwise, so I won't emaiul her anymore
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It depends on the situation. Early in relationships its best not to appear too keen for obvious reasons. If women see that you're NOT contacting them regulary then it tell them you have other things on your mind and they're not the center of your world. This is attractive for women.


facadegeniality said:
squirrels: i saw one of ur earlier post abt calling out her crap. how do u do that? by doing a no-contact?

sorry katzorange, pls let me borrow ur thread.
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I presume you just tell her you're not interested in her anymore when you see her. Don't be angry about it because it shows that you're hurt by "loosing" her. If you're calm and friendly saying it it'll have bigger impact.
 
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thanks guys for the tips, some are harsh but its what i definitely need...

I think I have developed oneitis, oh my god...lol
 
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Danger said:
Best not to say anything at all. Trust me.....by your walking away she will know you are on to her or suspect there is someone else in your life now.

Do not EVER bother to tell a woman that you are "on to her" or anything of that level. What is the point? Do you really think she will change?

All it does is display your weakness......the weakness of caring more than she does.....DLV. It makes you even LESS attractive. Move on with your own life and improve yourself, that is what an alpha would do. You make her question her own worthiness when you walk away in such a manner. And this is EXACTLY what she needs to be doing, questioning herself.
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Agreed..

The way to deliver the message with the most impact to a woman who has disrespected you is to coldly and SILENTLY withdraw what she values most - your affection and attention.
Make no mistake, this is the sharpest arrow that you could fire.
 
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