Chocolate Milk
Don Juan
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- Jun 23, 2002
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I've known this girl from work for a about a month now. We went out about two weeks ago w/ a group from work. We all had some drinks, made out w/ her and ended up crashing at one of the co-worker's house. We made out, but couldn't get the pants off. We cuddled most of the night as I was passed out, but would wake up every now and then and see a smile on her face (where obviously she felt emotional about the way things were.) Next morning I find out from the co-worker that she told him to get me to come in the room w/ her. We've spoken about where the relationship is and I told her honestly I was dating a few others which she said she was relieved about because she didn't want to jump into anything serious (4 months ago she was in a one yr relationship.)
We've hung out since then holding hands, messing around, etc..but mostly in the company of others. So last night she comes over where we've finally got some alone time and had dinner w/ a movie. After dinner we were messing around and she hints a lot that she wants to finally let me hit it, but urges me away whenever I get to the pants. Last night she said she wasn't quite ready yet, and I asked her "don't you trust me" and her response "was not really." WTF??
So undj like I decided to take her outside on the patio and tell her how I felt, that the people I am dating now don't compare to her and that I probably won't be dating much anymore and will probably just be dating her unless I just have to go out w/ a new girl I met. I heard the silence of the crickets screeching and I think a frog go ribit. Her response was basically like "oh". So after a while we made out some more and she left tho I think she was originally planning on spending the night together like we did the first.
Now fellas, I need damage control. We never really talked on the phone, we are the type to need space in a relationship, and I'm thinking I really put some negative thought into her by confessing all this. She doesn't date often and once before I remember her mentioning that she doesn't want to date anyone else now not including me, that I was unexpected (but wouldn't that make a committed relationship?) Help me out guys, this is one I really have strong feeling for which I usually never do. I've always been c & f and am a bad boy type which is who she usually dates, but I really f*cked up peeps. Hit me back!
We've hung out since then holding hands, messing around, etc..but mostly in the company of others. So last night she comes over where we've finally got some alone time and had dinner w/ a movie. After dinner we were messing around and she hints a lot that she wants to finally let me hit it, but urges me away whenever I get to the pants. Last night she said she wasn't quite ready yet, and I asked her "don't you trust me" and her response "was not really." WTF??
So undj like I decided to take her outside on the patio and tell her how I felt, that the people I am dating now don't compare to her and that I probably won't be dating much anymore and will probably just be dating her unless I just have to go out w/ a new girl I met. I heard the silence of the crickets screeching and I think a frog go ribit. Her response was basically like "oh". So after a while we made out some more and she left tho I think she was originally planning on spending the night together like we did the first.
Now fellas, I need damage control. We never really talked on the phone, we are the type to need space in a relationship, and I'm thinking I really put some negative thought into her by confessing all this. She doesn't date often and once before I remember her mentioning that she doesn't want to date anyone else now not including me, that I was unexpected (but wouldn't that make a committed relationship?) Help me out guys, this is one I really have strong feeling for which I usually never do. I've always been c & f and am a bad boy type which is who she usually dates, but I really f*cked up peeps. Hit me back!