"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fell into what i was trying to avoid .

NSX-R

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Been a long time since i posted . Dating life going great , fcked a lot of females this year.

Last year had a plate which intrigued me . Lots of mind issues, jealous and a big player this chick . Unfortunately developed oneitis with her . Fck me .

Moved for some time now but we still talk casually from time to time . Even though i keep on fcking other females this one is stuck in my mind . Stopped talking for like 4 months and i was back at it as soon as I remembered her .

Any idea how to pull off this oneitis from me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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djthiago1

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Find yourself a replacement ASAP. Nothing wrong with falling for a girl, as long as you don't let her know it and she's a good girl.
 

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Delete her number and stop talking to her, its that simple.
 

old_skoolr

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It's not her, it's the process.

Keep reminding yourself that. Helped me with 1 or 2
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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