"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alright, I've been going out with this girl for about a month now, and she's really into me.

I wasn't sure but the other day she started saying (over the phone, ldr) how much she misses me, how much she likes me, and wants to be with me. How she thought she just wanted to be friends at first, but after the first night we hung out she couldn't stop thinking about me.

How do I respond to this?

I like her but I know I shouldn't "express my un-dying love for her"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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To put her off and ignore her would obviously be going backwards.

I say just act like it's a normal thing that girls miss you and like you. Act like the prize and she'll enjoy you more. But don't overdo it
 
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*sighs* Why do you think how she's acting is a bad thing? As far as I know, to get a woman into that state of where she misses you and think's about you all the time is an OBJECTIVE.

I just hear my ego telling me: "Mission Accomplished" whenever a girl admited something similar to me. Then I knew I had her in the bag, and our future was mine to decide. If you like this girl, now's an ok time to hop into a relationship. If you're not sure... continue acting normal and see what happens. If you've decided this girls' not right, move on.

:)

Edit: Ok, only now read closely and saw you've only been dating for a month. A bit early for a relationship, soz. Though... trust your own inscinct on this one. My advice: tell her you wanna see how things go or somesuch. Continue dating...

Make some thing up! :D
 
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Originally posted by Keeper
*sighs* Why do you think how she's acting is a bad thing? As far as I know, to get a woman into that state of where she misses you and think's about you all the time is an OBJECTIVE.

I just hear my ego telling me: "Mission Accomplished" whenever a girl admited something similar to me. Then I knew I had her in the bag, and our future was mine to decide. If you like this girl, now's an ok time to hop into a relationship. If you're not sure... continue acting normal and see what happens. If you've decided this girls' not right, move on.

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No no, I think it's a great thing, and I want a relationship with her. I just don't want to say too much too soon. I basically told her I felt the same way...
 
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Well, if you told her that, then don't whimp out now. :) Go for the relationship if that's what you want... use your own judgement: you know the DJ guidelines; don't kiss her ass, don't suck up, be a man! There's no real thing you can and cannot say. All girls are different, and YOU should have enough skill to discern them. We can't do it for you. The Bible only teaches you how.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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