"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Feelings?

xaint

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Brothers, i just noticed i have a big problem! I dont know how to deal with girls that i really really like. I mean, when i date girls that i don't like that much or girls that i only want to have sex with, i dont have problems, i act confident, calm and charming... Now there is a girl whom i'm involving feelings(I dated her once) and most of times i don't know what to do. I try sometimes to get bussy in others things, but it doesnt seem to work.

I'd appreciate any advice.. thank you!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thundernuts

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You know I have the same problem. Thing is when u don't care you are confident because it doesn't matter whether or not you score.

Just don't worry about the outcome. If you are nervous you'll go from alpha to beta in no time at all so quit caring. I know its more difficult than that but you know as well as I do that's the problem. I can't tell you how to do it because that's all on you. Just remember that your the prize and if she is dumb enough to pass you up there are other women out there who won't.
 
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