"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Feelings?

xaint

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Brothers, i just noticed i have a big problem! I dont know how to deal with girls that i really really like. I mean, when i date girls that i don't like that much or girls that i only want to have sex with, i dont have problems, i act confident, calm and charming... Now there is a girl whom i'm involving feelings(I dated her once) and most of times i don't know what to do. I try sometimes to get bussy in others things, but it doesnt seem to work.

I'd appreciate any advice.. thank you!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You know I have the same problem. Thing is when u don't care you are confident because it doesn't matter whether or not you score.

Just don't worry about the outcome. If you are nervous you'll go from alpha to beta in no time at all so quit caring. I know its more difficult than that but you know as well as I do that's the problem. I can't tell you how to do it because that's all on you. Just remember that your the prize and if she is dumb enough to pass you up there are other women out there who won't.
 
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