"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Feelings?

xaint

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Brothers, i just noticed i have a big problem! I dont know how to deal with girls that i really really like. I mean, when i date girls that i don't like that much or girls that i only want to have sex with, i dont have problems, i act confident, calm and charming... Now there is a girl whom i'm involving feelings(I dated her once) and most of times i don't know what to do. I try sometimes to get bussy in others things, but it doesnt seem to work.

I'd appreciate any advice.. thank you!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thundernuts

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You know I have the same problem. Thing is when u don't care you are confident because it doesn't matter whether or not you score.

Just don't worry about the outcome. If you are nervous you'll go from alpha to beta in no time at all so quit caring. I know its more difficult than that but you know as well as I do that's the problem. I can't tell you how to do it because that's all on you. Just remember that your the prize and if she is dumb enough to pass you up there are other women out there who won't.
 
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