"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey, just wondering how you guys respond to girls that start to profess their feelings pretty early on and then start asking you how you feel and what you think etc. I know I've turned to mush before in this situation only to turn around and find the girl has gone. At the same time you dont want to turn the girl away by disregarding what she is saying with light hearted banter etc...

Cheers
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jitterbug

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Classic sh1t test.

Unless you're so obviously of higher value than her that you have her at hello, all women will probe you for any excuses to reject you, as soon as possible. They are not concerned with getting to know you or your feelings. Professing their feelings first is a trap to get you to reveal your own red flags. They are all about feelings this feelings that, so it's no big deal to them like it is to a man. Do not fall for that, mate.
 

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If a girl does this pretty early on, I usually see it as a sign of low self-esteem and desperation. If she asks me how I feel, I'll say something like "You should know by my actions" or "If I didn't enjoy spending time with you, you'd be gone by now." They're usually satisfied with those answers.
 

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Check her wrists and forearms, she might be a cutter.
 

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^^^^
hahahahahahahahahaha............sooooooo true!

Over and Out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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