You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dude after consistently fvcking a girl on birth control I would rather just be celibate than have sex with condoms, which is what I thought the last time I had to do it... fvck that shyt. You would have to be nuts to want to do that. It's going to be either a family or a vasectomy for me, if I don't become a monk haha...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Can't argue with stupidity... Stupidity wins every time.
You are definately in the minority here my man. Most men on this forum fu*k their main girl raw. Its not that serious.....now if your pull out game is wack then i agree with you.
I don't follow the heard. I go my own way. One of those ways is not being dumb enough to have unprotected sex with a lady who's not on birth control. That's just stupid. Tell the b itch to put a ring in it and be done with it. 21+ years of child support for an hour's worth of fun. Brilliant. Withdrawal method is not an effective use of birth control. Sperm can be in pre-***.
Actually studies show that withdrawal method is almost as effective as condoms. The problem is that most guys claim they withdrawal when they really dont. To each his own though. I havent gotten any girls pregnant yet so im good. But there is no way I will ever consistently use condoms with a main girl friend. But to each his own.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Just get her on the ring and you're good to go. Your stats are horribly wrong BTW. But hey, what do I know... I only work in a hospital.
Pandora mate, ALWAYS control your seed and contraceptive. You working in healthcare is chick crack who watch gay shows like greys and ER.So i have a perfect example of how women put feelings over facts. It drives me up the wall. So i am going through a pregnancy scare. I had one of those nights when you are not sure where your lil soldiers ended up (irresponsible i know). The girl is now about 2 weeks late. The day after the incident i begged her to get plan B and i offered to pay for it. She insisted that she was not going to take it. I work in healthcare ( low level position) so i know the biology of the plan B pill. I explained to her that it was NOT abortive. You are not killing any fertilized egg. I told her the side effects are basically non existent. There are NO downsides to it. Her responses were;
1.) I dont feel comfortable killing a baby and i dont want chemicals in my body..... (face palm)
2.) I dont want to be one of those girls that always runs to get plan B because it looks bad.....
3.) If my mom can raise a child with no help then i can do it too.......
This chick is 21 and still not out of college. I barely make enough to support myself let alone a kid. The big turn off is the ridiculous female logic. Im presenting FACTS she is presently ridiculous feelings. I always knew it was a matter of time before i got caught slipping. I made it through my whole 20s without a baby. I guess i just ran out of luck. So im hoping and praying that she is not really pregnant. I cant raise a baby with a person this illogical. This was an ex gf that i dated about 2yrs ago.
