"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

feeling time pressure to get a GF before 30

Thread starter wiggadude
Start date Jan 23, 2005

DeathDealer

Master Don Juan

Jan 23, 2005

Well, looking for a girlfriend in the teens is all about fun and exlporation. Looking for a girlfriend in the 20s is looking for someone to hook up for serious or just for fun. And looking for a girlfriend in the 30s is just looking for someone to settle down. Not sure about the other ages..but don't really care.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.