"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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feeling the distance

guymandudemale

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I have been with this girl for about a week now and I'm starting to feel a distance between us. We hit it off great and so and so, but for the past couple of days she has been acting differently. different as in not wanting to kiss, and she even hugs me with her butt sticking out almost. I'm thinking it's time for me to move on but I want to hear you guys opinions. thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WesCottII

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Do a takeaway/freezeout, when she pulls this ****.
 

drummer

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Not a good sign. Actually, a really bad sign. Keeping her pelvis away from yours is bad enough, but not wanting to even kiss is terrible. It sounds like time to learn a lesson and move on.
 

WesCottII

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Yeah. Thats the premise of a takeaway. You take yourself away, being "not available" and such.

A freezeout, is if you set a romantic mood, try to kiss her and she rejects you. Turn the lights on, move away and do something else, if she's interested, she'll restart it. If not, bye bye *****.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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