"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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feeling the distance

guymandudemale

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I have been with this girl for about a week now and I'm starting to feel a distance between us. We hit it off great and so and so, but for the past couple of days she has been acting differently. different as in not wanting to kiss, and she even hugs me with her butt sticking out almost. I'm thinking it's time for me to move on but I want to hear you guys opinions. thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WesCottII

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Do a takeaway/freezeout, when she pulls this ****.
 

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Not a good sign. Actually, a really bad sign. Keeping her pelvis away from yours is bad enough, but not wanting to even kiss is terrible. It sounds like time to learn a lesson and move on.
 

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Yeah. Thats the premise of a takeaway. You take yourself away, being "not available" and such.

A freezeout, is if you set a romantic mood, try to kiss her and she rejects you. Turn the lights on, move away and do something else, if she's interested, she'll restart it. If not, bye bye *****.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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