feeling the blues

[DJArlington]

i'm a fairly decisive person (not in terms of women but everything else) I am willing to take a risk and make a change. I don't like to moan and groan and make everyone around me miserable, that includes you guys on this site.

I have had the same thought in mind for a few years - there is a certain city I want to move to and build a life. Ever since I was 22 years old I've had the same goals in mind. Find a job in this city (which for me would be a piece of cake), buy a piece of property, etc. I already have a great job, property, friends, etc. business opportunities, girls to date, where I currently live but I feel like there is something missing. In the new city I already have a great set of friends and some family, so adjusting to it woulnd't be a big deal.

May be it's because I'm 30 yrs old and everything is becoming mundane here. I've been living in my city for 18 years now (minus college). I just feel like I need a change and all of my dreams have always been centered around living in the new city... Do you see my dilemma? I already have a great set up here.

Anyone ever feel this way ?

 

[Warrior74]

I've wanted to move to LA for as long as I could remember.....but it's not going to happen. I should have done it when I was younger and didn't have resposiblilities (fatherhood). If you have no children, go for what you want man. You can always come back. If I found a great (not good but great) job in LA or NYC I would be there in a heartbeat and fly my kid out every summer.

 

[DJArlington]

Got no kids; only liability I have is a carpayment and mortgage; but I can always rent my place out (may take a few months in this screwed up economy).

 

[Warrior74]

Go for it man. You only live once. Make a plan and see it through. Make a fallback plan just in case. It's your life.