"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Question mainly for older DJs. Did you ever had a feeling that you could done more in dating field? Like dating better girls, doing more fun stuff. Not in depressing way, just like a feeling that you think you missed on something more or good.Like you're married now but you feel man I could've done more. I'm 22 and sometimes I get some crazy feeling that I'm gonna miss on something, even tho I'm dating and sleeping with girls almost every week, I get those thoughts I'm gonna miss on even better girls. Or due to corona I can't go to Ibiza to have a blast. It's weird sh1t really.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This feeling is pervasive until get closer to 30's, it's your potential calling out to you, but frustration because we don't have all the required resources to max out on Self Development, time being the most valuable one, it's slipping away slow.
 

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This feeling is pervasive until get closer to 30's, it's your potential calling out to you, but frustration because we don't have all the required resources to max out on Self Development, time being the most valuable one, it's slipping away slow.
Very well said. I don't know if it has something to do with your surroundings,where you live, workplace etc
 

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Very well said. I don't know if it has something to do with your surroundings,where you live, workplace etc
Your ability to be in the moment and perceive the passage of time wains significantly between your early and late 20's... Preparing early by scheduling all your time will help... We are able to prepare for our prime in a way that women are just unable to, so we should capitalize on that.

Or don't, my life long friend works and plays NHL on Xbox all day, it's sad to watch but hey, it's an easy thing to do when your stoned all the time, but once he's outta weed, you see the panic in his eyes, denial, it's a sad thing man.
 

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Your ability to be in the moment and perceive the passage of time wains significantly between your early and late 20's... Preparing early by scheduling all your time will help... We are able to prepare for our prime in a way that women are just unable to, so we should capitalize on that.

Or don't, my life long friend works and plays NHL on Xbox all day, it's sad to watch but hey, it's an easy thing to do when your stoned all the time, but once he's outta weed, you see the panic in his eyes, denial, it's a sad thing man.
Yeah it's like that loser older brother on key and peele sketch if you watched it. Very sad but a lot of people end up like that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah it's like that loser older brother on key and peele sketch if you watched it. Very sad but a lot of people end up like that.
Most people will end up like that because it is easy and comfortable; first world life is in equal parts a blessing and a curse.

Most of us live under the guise that we have our 80 years to live, this is just untrue.

I used to study ancient samurai who lived by Bushido, and through Bushido, the men who most walked the line closest to death without fear always ended up living the longest.
 

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Most people will end up like that because it is easy and comfortable; first world life is in equal parts a blessing and a curse.

Most of us live under the guise that we have our 80 years to live, this is just untrue.

I used to study ancient samurai who lived by Bushido, and through Bushido, the men who most walked the line closest to death without fear always ended up living the longest.
Yes and a lot of people believe that destiny will make the work and that they can sit on their azzes all day. Ofcourse, that's not true.
 
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