"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Feeling like meh..

C00lAF

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First of all id like to thank each and everyone in this forum for the tips/advice/insights/you name it,i really appreciate it.

So in the past 6 months i made major improvments in mostly all aspects of my life,from my body to my study and ofc dating,after having somewhat success i noticed that whenever a girl tries to play hard to get or runs around i feel turned off and i just drop them all together and withraw all my attention and investment if i had any,is this a good thing or a bad thing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AlphaNate

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First, congratulations on improving yourself.

Whether or not you're nexting too quickly is subjective. If you want your answer as to how it affects you, change it slightly and evaluate how you feel about it.

I'd also question what exactly is causing you to "feel turned off." Is it an ego thing?
 

C00lAF

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I'd also question what exactly is causing you to "feel turned off." Is it an ego thing?
I dont think so,im self aware enough to notice it and supress it when its bad. Its more like a "im not chasing you h0e",they are always welcome when they have the right attuide tho
 

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Sounds good to me. It is possible to chase for a while and get s3x from it, but in the long run a woman will not get feelings for you or respect you if that is what you want.
 

C00lAF

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Sounds good to me. It is possible to chase for a while and get s3x from it, but in the long run a woman will not get feelings for you or respect you if that is what you want.
What i really want is my d1ck wet.im not after "butterflies in my gut",while its enjoyable,it might be progress stagring at this point of my life and age group
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I get the same way...

Some women seem to have great interest, then drop off the face of the earth. I just don't even bother pursuing. Some women honestly believe that the men should be doing all the pursuing and will stick to it, no matter what it costs them..,.
 

Milano

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What i really want is my d1ck wet.im not after "butterflies in my gut",while its enjoyable,it might be progress stagring at this point of my life and age group
My point is that it can be good for you if they get feelings, at least that is better than the opposite.
 
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