"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Feeling like meh..

C00lAF

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First of all id like to thank each and everyone in this forum for the tips/advice/insights/you name it,i really appreciate it.

So in the past 6 months i made major improvments in mostly all aspects of my life,from my body to my study and ofc dating,after having somewhat success i noticed that whenever a girl tries to play hard to get or runs around i feel turned off and i just drop them all together and withraw all my attention and investment if i had any,is this a good thing or a bad thing?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First, congratulations on improving yourself.

Whether or not you're nexting too quickly is subjective. If you want your answer as to how it affects you, change it slightly and evaluate how you feel about it.

I'd also question what exactly is causing you to "feel turned off." Is it an ego thing?
 

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I'd also question what exactly is causing you to "feel turned off." Is it an ego thing?
I dont think so,im self aware enough to notice it and supress it when its bad. Its more like a "im not chasing you h0e",they are always welcome when they have the right attuide tho
 

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Sounds good to me. It is possible to chase for a while and get s3x from it, but in the long run a woman will not get feelings for you or respect you if that is what you want.
 

C00lAF

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Sounds good to me. It is possible to chase for a while and get s3x from it, but in the long run a woman will not get feelings for you or respect you if that is what you want.
What i really want is my d1ck wet.im not after "butterflies in my gut",while its enjoyable,it might be progress stagring at this point of my life and age group
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I get the same way...

Some women seem to have great interest, then drop off the face of the earth. I just don't even bother pursuing. Some women honestly believe that the men should be doing all the pursuing and will stick to it, no matter what it costs them..,.
 

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What i really want is my d1ck wet.im not after "butterflies in my gut",while its enjoyable,it might be progress stagring at this point of my life and age group
My point is that it can be good for you if they get feelings, at least that is better than the opposite.
 
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