"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Feeling like meh..

C00lAF

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First of all id like to thank each and everyone in this forum for the tips/advice/insights/you name it,i really appreciate it.

So in the past 6 months i made major improvments in mostly all aspects of my life,from my body to my study and ofc dating,after having somewhat success i noticed that whenever a girl tries to play hard to get or runs around i feel turned off and i just drop them all together and withraw all my attention and investment if i had any,is this a good thing or a bad thing?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First, congratulations on improving yourself.

Whether or not you're nexting too quickly is subjective. If you want your answer as to how it affects you, change it slightly and evaluate how you feel about it.

I'd also question what exactly is causing you to "feel turned off." Is it an ego thing?
 

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I'd also question what exactly is causing you to "feel turned off." Is it an ego thing?
I dont think so,im self aware enough to notice it and supress it when its bad. Its more like a "im not chasing you h0e",they are always welcome when they have the right attuide tho
 

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Sounds good to me. It is possible to chase for a while and get s3x from it, but in the long run a woman will not get feelings for you or respect you if that is what you want.
 

C00lAF

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Sounds good to me. It is possible to chase for a while and get s3x from it, but in the long run a woman will not get feelings for you or respect you if that is what you want.
What i really want is my d1ck wet.im not after "butterflies in my gut",while its enjoyable,it might be progress stagring at this point of my life and age group
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I get the same way...

Some women seem to have great interest, then drop off the face of the earth. I just don't even bother pursuing. Some women honestly believe that the men should be doing all the pursuing and will stick to it, no matter what it costs them..,.
 

Milano

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What i really want is my d1ck wet.im not after "butterflies in my gut",while its enjoyable,it might be progress stagring at this point of my life and age group
My point is that it can be good for you if they get feelings, at least that is better than the opposite.
 
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