"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feeling like meh..

C00lAF

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First of all id like to thank each and everyone in this forum for the tips/advice/insights/you name it,i really appreciate it.

So in the past 6 months i made major improvments in mostly all aspects of my life,from my body to my study and ofc dating,after having somewhat success i noticed that whenever a girl tries to play hard to get or runs around i feel turned off and i just drop them all together and withraw all my attention and investment if i had any,is this a good thing or a bad thing?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First, congratulations on improving yourself.

Whether or not you're nexting too quickly is subjective. If you want your answer as to how it affects you, change it slightly and evaluate how you feel about it.

I'd also question what exactly is causing you to "feel turned off." Is it an ego thing?
 

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I'd also question what exactly is causing you to "feel turned off." Is it an ego thing?
I dont think so,im self aware enough to notice it and supress it when its bad. Its more like a "im not chasing you h0e",they are always welcome when they have the right attuide tho
 

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Sounds good to me. It is possible to chase for a while and get s3x from it, but in the long run a woman will not get feelings for you or respect you if that is what you want.
 

C00lAF

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Sounds good to me. It is possible to chase for a while and get s3x from it, but in the long run a woman will not get feelings for you or respect you if that is what you want.
What i really want is my d1ck wet.im not after "butterflies in my gut",while its enjoyable,it might be progress stagring at this point of my life and age group
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Roober

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I get the same way...

Some women seem to have great interest, then drop off the face of the earth. I just don't even bother pursuing. Some women honestly believe that the men should be doing all the pursuing and will stick to it, no matter what it costs them..,.
 

Milano

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What i really want is my d1ck wet.im not after "butterflies in my gut",while its enjoyable,it might be progress stagring at this point of my life and age group
My point is that it can be good for you if they get feelings, at least that is better than the opposite.
 
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