"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NSUballer

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Fvck her!!!

First off you are NOT in love, its called lust. Love happens when ur with a person for a while not a few days or weeks. ITs been said many times we've all been there. I personally followed the "one" to college only for her to rip my heart out and burn it on a stake(she actually the reason i found this site). Whats most important and the central theme to this site is what are YOU gonna do about it. No one can help you but you. Advice is good but you have to turn advice into action. Best advice I can give you is lower ur standards a bit and get some action from some random chic. You will never ever get a hot chic being nervous or shy. Learn how to communicate with people not just women and it will help you tremendously. Go out to a bar or club and talk to people you dont know guys girls everyone, hot or not. This is not the end of the world i promise.

"Fate decides who enters your life, and actions decide who stay in your life. But there is no point in trying to rush your fate because the best things in life are worth waiting for."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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