"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NSUballer

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Fvck her!!!

First off you are NOT in love, its called lust. Love happens when ur with a person for a while not a few days or weeks. ITs been said many times we've all been there. I personally followed the "one" to college only for her to rip my heart out and burn it on a stake(she actually the reason i found this site). Whats most important and the central theme to this site is what are YOU gonna do about it. No one can help you but you. Advice is good but you have to turn advice into action. Best advice I can give you is lower ur standards a bit and get some action from some random chic. You will never ever get a hot chic being nervous or shy. Learn how to communicate with people not just women and it will help you tremendously. Go out to a bar or club and talk to people you dont know guys girls everyone, hot or not. This is not the end of the world i promise.

"Fate decides who enters your life, and actions decide who stay in your life. But there is no point in trying to rush your fate because the best things in life are worth waiting for."
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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