"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Feeling Guilty For Turning Girls Down

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I experience this sometimes.

There are several girls who I know who have wanted me for months, even years, and they have made their intentions known to everyone around.

The thing is, these are pretty girls, intelligent, very sweet, they have everything going for them, but for whatever reason, there's no sexual chemistry or spark that I feel when I'm with them. They'd settle for casual sex, but even that doesn't appeal to me much.

I can so easily attract super hot girls, that fantastic, amazing girls with everything going for them: money, personality, cute looks, just doesn't get me aroused enough.

I know these girls are hurt by this, but I just don't FEEL it with these girls.

Let me get rid of this guilt once and for all, knowing that they have a different destiny, and so do I.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I can see feeling a bit guilty about a pump and dump. But if you haven't even dated or fooled around with these girls, what do you have to feel guilty about? You haven't led them on at all. You owe them nothing. You are under no obligation to date someone just because they are attracted to you.

Now if these so called gorgeous, rich dream girls still don't turn you on, that's a separate problem.
 
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You misread, dude. The girls I'm turning down are cute girls in the 6/7 range.

I've actually gotten "tricked" into dating these girls, however. They'll say: "hey, we're all going out after work for a drink." So, we'll go out with 6 or 7 people then she'll isolate me by giving me a ride home, or by arranging the event knowing everyone else will leave early, leaving just the two of us.

A lot of these girls have really good game, and pull out all the stops. I can tell they've put a lot of effort into it, and then the moment just falls flat since I'm not feeling them.

The hot girls are great: they don't get jealous at all.

Mike32ct said:
I can see feeling a bit guilty about a pump and dump. But if you haven't even dated or fooled around with these girls, what do you have to feel guilty about? You haven't led them on at all. You owe them nothing. You are under no obligation to date someone just because they are attracted to you.

Now if these so called gorgeous, rich dream girls still don't turn you on, that's a separate problem.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why don't you actually date and get physical with these girls? - Then you may actually feel something...the chemistry you are seeking??
 
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My advice still stands. You owe these girls nothing. If they get you isolated and you aren't interested, treat her like a friend. Don't touch her at all. Be a nice guy gentleman and let yourself fall into friendzone by default. Then she can't hate you because you did nothing wrong.
 
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Right on brothah. Problem solved.

Mike32ct said:
My advice still stands. You owe these girls nothing. If they get you isolated and you aren't interested, treat her like a friend. Don't touch her at all. Be a nice guy gentleman and let yourself fall into friendzone by default. Then she can't hate you because you did nothing wrong.
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