"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Feeling Guilty For Turning Girls Down

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I experience this sometimes.

There are several girls who I know who have wanted me for months, even years, and they have made their intentions known to everyone around.

The thing is, these are pretty girls, intelligent, very sweet, they have everything going for them, but for whatever reason, there's no sexual chemistry or spark that I feel when I'm with them. They'd settle for casual sex, but even that doesn't appeal to me much.

I can so easily attract super hot girls, that fantastic, amazing girls with everything going for them: money, personality, cute looks, just doesn't get me aroused enough.

I know these girls are hurt by this, but I just don't FEEL it with these girls.

Let me get rid of this guilt once and for all, knowing that they have a different destiny, and so do I.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I can see feeling a bit guilty about a pump and dump. But if you haven't even dated or fooled around with these girls, what do you have to feel guilty about? You haven't led them on at all. You owe them nothing. You are under no obligation to date someone just because they are attracted to you.

Now if these so called gorgeous, rich dream girls still don't turn you on, that's a separate problem.
 
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You misread, dude. The girls I'm turning down are cute girls in the 6/7 range.

I've actually gotten "tricked" into dating these girls, however. They'll say: "hey, we're all going out after work for a drink." So, we'll go out with 6 or 7 people then she'll isolate me by giving me a ride home, or by arranging the event knowing everyone else will leave early, leaving just the two of us.

A lot of these girls have really good game, and pull out all the stops. I can tell they've put a lot of effort into it, and then the moment just falls flat since I'm not feeling them.

The hot girls are great: they don't get jealous at all.

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I can see feeling a bit guilty about a pump and dump. But if you haven't even dated or fooled around with these girls, what do you have to feel guilty about? You haven't led them on at all. You owe them nothing. You are under no obligation to date someone just because they are attracted to you.

Now if these so called gorgeous, rich dream girls still don't turn you on, that's a separate problem.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why don't you actually date and get physical with these girls? - Then you may actually feel something...the chemistry you are seeking??
 
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My advice still stands. You owe these girls nothing. If they get you isolated and you aren't interested, treat her like a friend. Don't touch her at all. Be a nice guy gentleman and let yourself fall into friendzone by default. Then she can't hate you because you did nothing wrong.
 
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Right on brothah. Problem solved.

Mike32ct said:
My advice still stands. You owe these girls nothing. If they get you isolated and you aren't interested, treat her like a friend. Don't touch her at all. Be a nice guy gentleman and let yourself fall into friendzone by default. Then she can't hate you because you did nothing wrong.
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