"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Feeling Guilty For Turning Girls Down

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I experience this sometimes.

There are several girls who I know who have wanted me for months, even years, and they have made their intentions known to everyone around.

The thing is, these are pretty girls, intelligent, very sweet, they have everything going for them, but for whatever reason, there's no sexual chemistry or spark that I feel when I'm with them. They'd settle for casual sex, but even that doesn't appeal to me much.

I can so easily attract super hot girls, that fantastic, amazing girls with everything going for them: money, personality, cute looks, just doesn't get me aroused enough.

I know these girls are hurt by this, but I just don't FEEL it with these girls.

Let me get rid of this guilt once and for all, knowing that they have a different destiny, and so do I.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can see feeling a bit guilty about a pump and dump. But if you haven't even dated or fooled around with these girls, what do you have to feel guilty about? You haven't led them on at all. You owe them nothing. You are under no obligation to date someone just because they are attracted to you.

Now if these so called gorgeous, rich dream girls still don't turn you on, that's a separate problem.
 
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You misread, dude. The girls I'm turning down are cute girls in the 6/7 range.

I've actually gotten "tricked" into dating these girls, however. They'll say: "hey, we're all going out after work for a drink." So, we'll go out with 6 or 7 people then she'll isolate me by giving me a ride home, or by arranging the event knowing everyone else will leave early, leaving just the two of us.

A lot of these girls have really good game, and pull out all the stops. I can tell they've put a lot of effort into it, and then the moment just falls flat since I'm not feeling them.

The hot girls are great: they don't get jealous at all.

Mike32ct said:
I can see feeling a bit guilty about a pump and dump. But if you haven't even dated or fooled around with these girls, what do you have to feel guilty about? You haven't led them on at all. You owe them nothing. You are under no obligation to date someone just because they are attracted to you.

Now if these so called gorgeous, rich dream girls still don't turn you on, that's a separate problem.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why don't you actually date and get physical with these girls? - Then you may actually feel something...the chemistry you are seeking??
 
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My advice still stands. You owe these girls nothing. If they get you isolated and you aren't interested, treat her like a friend. Don't touch her at all. Be a nice guy gentleman and let yourself fall into friendzone by default. Then she can't hate you because you did nothing wrong.
 
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Right on brothah. Problem solved.

Mike32ct said:
My advice still stands. You owe these girls nothing. If they get you isolated and you aren't interested, treat her like a friend. Don't touch her at all. Be a nice guy gentleman and let yourself fall into friendzone by default. Then she can't hate you because you did nothing wrong.
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