"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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feeling guilty for not sarging today!!How do I fight this?

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Ok, so I had a bad hedeach after work, and wanted to sleep in metro to get ready, but then three set came in I started to inteact, and couldn't sleep, they pulled away and took away all my energy, so I'm home feeling guilty for not going out sarging..

How do I fight this feeling...

How much should sarging be part of once life?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't worry man.

You'll be out there soon again.

You just had a headache today.

Relax.
 
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Good Advice KontrollerX,
I get that feeling too sometimes, when i have a headache or am not in a good mood when i see a beautiful woman...but yet feel bad for not going up to her. But yea, just tell urself that you should sarge when u want to not exactly that u absolutely have to.
 
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Canadien said:
Ok, so I had a bad hedeach after work, and wanted to sleep in metro to get ready, but then three set came in I started to inteact, and couldn't sleep, they pulled away and took away all my energy, so I'm home feeling guilty for not going out sarging..

How do I fight this feeling...

How much should sarging be part of once life?
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Calm down you can always sarge tomorrow, next day, day after that.

Go take a nap or something, sleeping, eating, working, kickin it with friends are a part of life (If not more) than sarging.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Canadien said:
Ok, so I had a bad hedeach after work, and wanted to sleep in metro to get ready, but then three set came in I started to inteact, and couldn't sleep, they pulled away and took away all my energy, so I'm home feeling guilty for not going out sarging..

How do I fight this feeling...

How much should sarging be part of once life?
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Going out feeling like that would have been worse than staying home. When you feel like Poop you look like Poop and you interact like poop...

You did the right thing to go home and take care of #1.
 
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