"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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feeling guilty for not sarging today!!How do I fight this?

Canadien

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Ok, so I had a bad hedeach after work, and wanted to sleep in metro to get ready, but then three set came in I started to inteact, and couldn't sleep, they pulled away and took away all my energy, so I'm home feeling guilty for not going out sarging..

How do I fight this feeling...

How much should sarging be part of once life?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

KontrollerX

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Don't worry man.

You'll be out there soon again.

You just had a headache today.

Relax.
 

IWillReturnsoon

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Good Advice KontrollerX,
I get that feeling too sometimes, when i have a headache or am not in a good mood when i see a beautiful woman...but yet feel bad for not going up to her. But yea, just tell urself that you should sarge when u want to not exactly that u absolutely have to.
 

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Canadien said:
Ok, so I had a bad hedeach after work, and wanted to sleep in metro to get ready, but then three set came in I started to inteact, and couldn't sleep, they pulled away and took away all my energy, so I'm home feeling guilty for not going out sarging..

How do I fight this feeling...

How much should sarging be part of once life?
Calm down you can always sarge tomorrow, next day, day after that.

Go take a nap or something, sleeping, eating, working, kickin it with friends are a part of life (If not more) than sarging.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Canadien said:
Ok, so I had a bad hedeach after work, and wanted to sleep in metro to get ready, but then three set came in I started to inteact, and couldn't sleep, they pulled away and took away all my energy, so I'm home feeling guilty for not going out sarging..

How do I fight this feeling...

How much should sarging be part of once life?

Going out feeling like that would have been worse than staying home. When you feel like Poop you look like Poop and you interact like poop...

You did the right thing to go home and take care of #1.
 
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