"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Feeling exhausted after approaches

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n00bPimp

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So i've recently started to say whats up to every stranger girl that I can. This is actually just my 3rd day, but I notice I feel really tired from doing it. Like after doing it 6 or 7 times. It gives me a short term high but then I just cant help but feeling tired after the 4 or 5th girl. Like if all my energy is wasted on every "hi" that I say. Can anybody relate? any tips? Thanks!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Drink an energy drink. I really don't know what kind of advice you are expecting here.
 
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I think I know what you're talking about. I used to to get the same sort of feeling when I started hanging out with people on a more large scale. I just called it social exhaustion, and it really comes from the point that you're getting some personal satisfaction from meeting people... but for making yourself feel good. (which is cool mind you.)

Though you're most likely farther down the path of seduction then me, I can still provide a little insight here... people are like marathons, the more times you run them, the more you get used to it. It's just an exposure thing... but if you don't want to believe that, then another thing is ask yourself "do I care at all for these people"? Probably not, and listening to a bunch of peoples opinions on what to get your kid sister for her b-day can get old... FAST.

Keep it in mind.
 
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