"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Feeling exhausted after approaches

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So i've recently started to say whats up to every stranger girl that I can. This is actually just my 3rd day, but I notice I feel really tired from doing it. Like after doing it 6 or 7 times. It gives me a short term high but then I just cant help but feeling tired after the 4 or 5th girl. Like if all my energy is wasted on every "hi" that I say. Can anybody relate? any tips? Thanks!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Drink an energy drink. I really don't know what kind of advice you are expecting here.
 
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I think I know what you're talking about. I used to to get the same sort of feeling when I started hanging out with people on a more large scale. I just called it social exhaustion, and it really comes from the point that you're getting some personal satisfaction from meeting people... but for making yourself feel good. (which is cool mind you.)

Though you're most likely farther down the path of seduction then me, I can still provide a little insight here... people are like marathons, the more times you run them, the more you get used to it. It's just an exposure thing... but if you don't want to believe that, then another thing is ask yourself "do I care at all for these people"? Probably not, and listening to a bunch of peoples opinions on what to get your kid sister for her b-day can get old... FAST.

Keep it in mind.
 
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