"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feeling drained and tired after work

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I feel so tired and drained everyday after work that I usually don't have any energy left to do anything else. It usually start around Tuesdays and my productivity level hits zero on Fridays and so does my temper.

I have realized hitting the gym is never going to happen for me. I rather try to eat some fruits, one vitamin, and drink water after I come home. I am considering walking 30 mins a day, some basic yoga/ stretching and meditation every afternoon.

Is there anything else I could do that would give me a bit more energy throughout the evening so I feel refreshed and energetic?

Thanks for any suggestion.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zaraza

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how many hours of sleep do you get? I ussually average 6 to 7, and i feel drained at times. I go to the gym (not as much as i would like to), when i work out i feel a lot better. For my body to not feel drained i need minimum 7.5 to 8 hours of sleep.

I Dont drink energy drinks, and hope you dont either, after drinking those you become more drained.
 

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Green tea pills and drink helped me a lot. Coupled with a good diet helpled me.
 

fillme

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Zaraza said:
how many hours of sleep do you get? I ussually average 6 to 7, and i feel drained at times. I go to the gym (not as much as i would like to), when i work out i feel a lot better. For my body to not feel drained i need minimum 7.5 to 8 hours of sleep.

I Dont drink energy drinks, and hope you dont either, after drinking those you become more drained.
I usually hit the bed at 10:00pm and fall asleep at around 11:00 and wake up again 7:00/7:30 in the morning - so there's 7-8 hours of sleep. Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night because either I feel hungry & want to eat something or I want to go to toilet. I usually take a nap for about 2 hours over the weekend (right after lunch).
 

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Try getting up an hour early at 6:00. Sounds simple, yes. Maybe even doing a little bit of exercising/stretching/running/weightlifting/etc. Works for me. Makes me feel like I'm getting ahead of the day. Life is all about your frame of mind.

Being healthy and in shape doesn't hurt either.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ha, welcome to the real world 8-5 rat race dude!
Is your job giving you extra stress, do you dread going to work?
Maybe it's time for a change there...

Otherwise, just get your ass up early and exercise. You'd be surprised
how quickly your body and mind will adapt. The notion of working
out in the morning used to give me chills...now I can't imagine any other way.
 

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fillme said:
I feel so tired and drained everyday after work that I usually don't have any energy left to do anything else. It usually start around Tuesdays and my productivity level hits zero on Fridays and so does my temper.

I have realized hitting the gym is never going to happen for me. I rather try to eat some fruits, one vitamin, and drink water after I come home. I am considering walking 30 mins a day, some basic yoga/ stretching and meditation every afternoon.

Is there anything else I could do that would give me a bit more energy throughout the evening so I feel refreshed and energetic?

Thanks for any suggestion.
It could be your diet and sleep. I work 3 jobs and lift 4 days a week and cardio 3 days. If my diet starts slipping and I don't get 7-8 hours of sleep I will feel drained all day long. The funny thing is I get a boast of energy when it's time to hit the weights.
 
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