"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Feeling down? FORCE A SMILE.

Embrace

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I have a lot of depression issues due to chemical stuff that's messed up within my body. On some days for no reason I feel crappy, sad, just overall not happy. After a few minutes of my depressed state I realize that I hate it and refuse to be depressed.

I decided to force a smile for an extened period of time and after that, I felt I had more energy and I litterly felt happy.

Its almost like the muscles you use in your face to smile remind your body what being happy is like and it forces you to cheer up.

Give it a try, it couldnt hurt
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smiling does help improve a sour mood. It releases chemicals in your brain synonymous with happy.(Endorphins I think.)
 

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hahaha... i actually do this... this is soo weird. I keep seeing stuff here that i actually do.
 

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I do this as well. I have also started to use a trigger song. When I feel in a fantastic mood, I listen to a song. Then, when I am down I listen to the same song. It gets me right back into happy mode!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Embrace

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CrunchyNut said:
I do this as well. I have also started to use a trigger song. When I feel in a fantastic mood, I listen to a song. Then, when I am down I listen to the same song. It gets me right back into happy mode!


I havent really thought about the trigger song idea. I was doing that naturally I guess. Whenever Iwas feeling down I'd put on a song that I like (probably was happy when I listened to it the first time) and it makes me feel more happy.

Good stuff
 

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Embrace said:
I have a lot of depression issues due to chemical stuff that's messed up within my body. On some days for no reason I feel crappy, sad, just overall not happy. After a few minutes of my depressed state I realize that I hate it and refuse to be depressed.

I decided to force a smile for an extened period of time and after that, I felt I had more energy and I litterly felt happy.

Its almost like the muscles you use in your face to smile remind your body what being happy is like and it forces you to cheer up.

Give it a try, it couldnt hurt

This is because every time you smile in sends endorphins (Chemical or whatever associated with happiness) to your brain. This in turn will cheer you up. Just force one big smile. Works wonders.
 
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